This is TRUE

An entry posted by Kak Jan. Ermm well..this is so true..

I think all we have to do is have a positive mind and just be there for them, whenever they need you. That being said, I also think that, you know when you need to give up on someone. When all they do is hurt you, changed from what they used to be, not in a good way but in a bad way. When you tried to help them but it’s futile. You just can’t help those who can’t help themselves. I also think that being apart is important in any relationship as much as being close. When you are away from each other, that’s when you realized that something is missing in your life, like its incomplete and it also gives you time to yourself to get to know what you want on your own, and also think about new ideas or stories or thoughts to share with people. If you are with them all the time, I think there is a tendency that you will take them for granted, knowing that they are always there for you. Sometimes you can't think on your own... because you depended on other people views or thoughts. If you distanced yourself from them a bit, it makes you think about the person more, you actually have time to be able to miss them, and makes you want to see them and really looking forward to spend time with them again.

We have only one life. We should make the best out of it. Have a positive mind. Be good to people. Make new friends. Find new hobbies. Avoid negative thoughts. Enjoy what we have while we still can enjoy them.

Hmmm........

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